Stop Listening to Music While You Meditate (And How to Finally Find the Quiet Anchor)

Published on November 2, 2025 at 6:01 PM

Unplug to Tune In: Your 5-Minute Digital Detox for Instant Calm

In our always-on world, our phones, tablets, and screens promise connection, but often deliver distraction, overwhelm, and a constant drain on our nervous systems. We scroll, tap, and swipe our way through the day, rarely giving our minds a true moment to disconnect and simply be.

As a Reiki Master and regular meditator, I understand the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways technology can hijack our peace. The constant influx of information keeps our minds racing, making that elusive "empty mind" feeling seem utterly impossible.

But what if finding inner calm was as simple as choosing to unplug for just five minutes? At The Merry Medium, I teach practical, no-fuss methods to reclaim your peace. You don't need a silent retreat; you just need a conscious pause.

The Digital Drain: Why We Need a Conscious Pause

Think about it: from the moment we wake up, we’re absorbing headlines, notifications, emails, and social feeds. Our brains are constantly processing, reacting, and often stressing. This keeps our nervous systems in a low-grade "fight or flight" mode, making it impossible to listen to our inner selves truly.

The Solution? A deliberate, digital pause. This isn't about ditching your tech forever; it's about creating pockets of sacred, screen-free time for your mind and soul.

Your 5-Minute Unplug-and-Tune-In Hack

This is a simple, powerful practice you can do anywhere—at your desk, in your car, or on a park bench. All you need is five minutes and a willingness to simply be.

Step 1: Declare Your Digital Boundary (The Unplug)

For the next five minutes, your phone is off, on silent, or out of sight. You are intentionally stepping away from the digital noise. This simple act is incredibly empowering.

Step 2: Close Your Eyes & Breathe (The Anchor)

Gently close your eyes. Place one hand on your belly. Take three slow, deep breaths, inhaling deeply through your nose, feeling your belly rise, and exhaling slowly through your mouth, letting your shoulders drop. This immediately signals to your nervous system that it’s safe to relax.

Step 3: Listen & Let Go (The Inner Self)

With your eyes closed, listen to the internal landscape. Thoughts will arise—"What's for dinner?", "Did I send that email?"—and that's okay. When a thought comes, gently acknowledge it with a silent "Hello thought," and then imagine it drifting away with a "Goodbye thought." Don't judge it; just observe and release.

Step 4: Feel Your Center (The Calm)

After a few minutes of observing thoughts, bring your awareness to the center of your chest, to your heart space. Breathe gently into this area, imagining a soft, warm light expanding with each inhale, filling you with calm. Rest here, feeling your own steady rhythm.

Reclaim Your Inner Peace, One Pause at a Time

This 5-minute digital detox is a powerful tool to reconnect with your intuition, calm your nervous system, and re-balance your energy in a world that constantly demands your attention. It's not about being perfect; it's about consistently choosing yourself, even for just five minutes.

For more modern, practical ways to find your inner calm amidst the chaos, explore my book, The Merry Medium: Modern Meditations. It’s your guide to effortless peace.

Ready to find your anchor in the digital storm? 

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